His desire for you over-rides your free will, in that respect
He will constantly make things happen that will draw you to him - again and again
You cannot escape it
How can you tell if a person is elect? Well, all such people are religious or at least spiritual - but being religious is no guarantee of being one of the elect!
Going to church is a sign of being saved, not a cause of salvation!
In the end everything will be clear and we will see what'w what
As I said in a previous post on this blog, this is called "irresistible grace"
This was all Calvin's idea!
So I suppose that makes me a Calvinist????